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Alternative Desires House Rules:
MEMBERSHIP & ENTRY
Membership must be current and in good standing.
21+ only. A valid government-issued ID must be presented upon check-in.
CONSENT IS EVERYTHING!
We are a CONSENT-BASED environment. Consent is fundamental to everything we do.
“NO” is a complete sentence until negotiated. Respect another person’s answer.
Negotiation must be mutual, clear, and consensual.
If it isn’t yours, DON’T TOUCH IT. This includes people, personal belongings, equipment, and scenes in progress. No puppy-dogging. Do not repeatedly follow someone around or continue giving them attention when they have not invited it or demonstrated that they want it.
PARTY & PROPERTY RULES
No outside food or beverages are permitted during parties.
No firearms or weapons are permitted on the premises.
Whatever you bring in, you take out. This includes toy bags, clothing, personal items, and anything else you bring with you. Nudity is permitted only within designated play spaces.
Nudity is not permitted in the bar area or designated social spaces.
KNOW YOUR LIMITS
No obnoxious intoxication.
Know your limits and remain responsible for your behavior.
Being intoxicated is never an excuse for disrespecting boundaries or consent.
❤️🔥 RESPECT. CONSENT. PRIVACY. COMMUNITY.
Come have fun, meet people, explore, and enjoy yourself —
but respect the space, respect the people, and respect the rules.
Failure to follow these rules may result in removal from
the premises and/or loss of member indefinitely!
FAQ
Where are we located?
What are Alternative Desires' hours?
Club is open every Friday and Saturday unless stated otherwise on event calendar. Doors open at 8pm, doors will be locked at 11pm for security reasons, and the bar closes at 1am.
Are there hotels near by?
Yes! There are many hotels close by the clubs location:
Hyatt regency - 0.4 mi
125 E Main St
Rochester, NY 14604
Hilton garden Inn downtown Rochester - 0.4 mi
155 E Main St
Rochester, NY 14604
Inn on Broadway - 0.6 mi
26 Broadway
Rochester, NY 14607
Hampton Inn & Suites - 0.9 mi
101 South Union St
Rochester, NY 14607
What are ticket prices?
Membership is required in order to purchase tickets. Ticket prices are:
Couples - $70
Single Females - $35
Single Males - $100.00
AD Kink Events (Friday nights only) - $20
Are single males allowed in the club?
Yes, membership required and limited tickets will be sold separately each event.
What is the dress code?
You can find the dress code on the "Code of Conduct" page. CLICK HERE.
How can I stay up to date on all things Alternative Desires?
Feel free to visit our Members Message Board for updates and you can also follow us on FACEBOOK.
Where can I leave my things?
There is a coat drop area when you first enter the club with coat racks available. We also offer a co-ed dressing room with lockers where bags can be stored for the evening. You must bring your own lock for lockers, any locks left locked on lockers will be removed after closing. Please note Alternative Desires is not responsible for any lost or stolen items.
Is there food and drinks?
Yes, we offer a full bar (card only) along with complimentary light finger foods.
What kind of music do you play?
Our music is intended to set the mood, without overwhelming your senses. Our guests tend to be over thirty and our music reflects that. We are always welcome requests.
What are the guests like?
Alternative Desires attracts guests who are open-minded, curious and adventurous.
Couples who attend the club are usually interested in exploring new ways to spice up their relationship. Solos are often looking for chance encounters or to find an ongoing compatible play partner. Some couples are swingers, some are in poly relationships, and some are just looking to enjoy their evening to its fullest! We do not judge at AD.
The average age of our guests is between 30 and 55, but everyone 21 and over is welcome.
Can I take pictures in the club?
The only space pictures are permitted is in front of our A.D. photodrop area.
What are your club rules?
Please take the time to read our club's "Code of Conduct", CLICK HERE.
All Club Rules can be viewed by clicking HERE.
More Questions?