Alternative Desires Code of Conduct

Welcome to Alternative Desires, where we prioritize a safe, inclusive, and respectful environment for all members to explore their sexuality and attractions. By becoming a member, you agree to adhere to the following code of conduct:

Respect and Consent

Always seek explicit consent before engaging in any form of interaction. Respect boundaries and accept "NO" as a final answer without question or pressure. Respect the privacy and confidentiality of all members. What happens within the club stays within the club.

Inclusivity and Equality

Treat every member with dignity regardless of gender, orientation, or identity. Discrimination or harassment in any form will not be tolerated. Embrace diversity and foster an environment where everyone feels welcome and valued.

Safety First

Report any behavior that makes you or others feel uncomfortable or threatened to club staff immediately.

Follow all safety protocols and guidelines provided by the club during events.

Substance Use

Use of alcohol and other substances should be moderate and responsible. Illegal substances and excessive intoxication are strictly prohibited. If you feel excessively intoxicated or that you're being a buzzkill, politely excuse yourself from the party or ask someone to call you an Uber. Members will respect your sense of control.

Confidentiality

Do not discuss or share any personal information about other members outside the club.

Photography, video recording, or any form of unauthorized documentation is forbidden unless explicitly permitted by everyone involved. The use of cell phones or videotaping devices is strictly prohibited at all times in the PLAY AREAS. If a guest is caught in restricted areas taking photos or videos with or without consent, you will be banned from future use of the club without a refund.

Dress Code

Alternative Desires Dress Code

Our events are all about style, sophistication, and seduction. Sexy, club-chic attire is required for entry. Think polished, confident, and ready to impress. Dressy casual is the baseline—elevated is encouraged!

Not permitted:

Baseball Caps (except fedoras and newsboy caps)
Advertising or offensive T-shirts
Sports jerseys or shirts
Hoodies, sweatpants, or tracksuits
Basketball or athletic shorts
Oversized clothing
Flip-flops or construction boots

Exceptions & Notes:

Summer looks may include stylish shorts, such as Dockers or cargo shorts.
Designer jeans and T-shirts are welcome if they’re sharp, fashionable, and free of rips, stains, or heavy wear.

*Final decisions on attire rest with club management.*

Feedback and Improvement

We encourage feedback to ensure our community remains supportive and meets the needs of all our members.

By agreeing to this code of conduct, you help maintain Alternative Desires as a sanctuary for exploration and connection in a safe, consensual, and respectful manner. Your adherence ensures a positive experience for yourself and your fellow members.