Alternative Desires is an exclusive, 21+ members-only night club and bar that offers an unparalleled experience for those seeking a unique adult escape. Only 10 miles south of Rochester, come unleash your passions and enter a sophisticated sanctuary where elegance and excitement converge. We provide the ultimate environment to safely exploring your deepest fantasies.

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To attend any of our captivating experiences, you must first become a member. As a member, you'll gain access to our themed events and bar; which boast vibrant entertainment, fully stocked cash bar, along with designated playrooms designed for your sensual enjoyment. Additionally, your membership includes a personalized profile visible only to fellow members, ensuring a discreet yet connected community. Join us at Alternative Desires and indulge in an extraordinary world reserved for those who truly appreciate life’s exceptional pleasures.